I suppose you're not entirely wrong about that ...

[ there had been many situations where she was supposedly "chosen" and she simply had to deal with it. so much so that she's gotten so used to it that, despite her complaints and insistence that she won't do something, all she can do is sigh and nod and let the flow carry her. ]

Was there ever anyone who met the bar?

[ look, she's not saying that those qualities are mutually exclusive. the combination is just very random, that's all. ]

Though I suppose if they don't like ramen, you could always convert them.